Monday, November 26, 2007

this will be a completely 360˚ contradictory post from my previous one.. which was posted bout few hours ago.. I talked to my boyfriend.. and finally we made things clear and understandable to each other.. we spit out everything that we have been keeping all these while.. it's all about communication, communication and communication.. now I undoubtedly understand his and my situation.. what and who a man is without career and money? and the fact in life that money IS EVERYTHING.. it is undeniably substantial.. barely a handful were born with it.. but utmost were born to work for it..

it is never easy to overcome obstacles in life.. but the best part of it, is that you get to share it with the other half.. it doesn't matter if he or she will be able to help.. but by just listening to the problems, we have already ease the weight on the shoulders a little.. though I might not be able to help.. but I least I want to be that someone who you could let out your problems to.. I was wrong to judge you at first without listening and putting myself in your shoes.. but after our talk.. I really understand how you feel now.. it takes both hands to clap.. and we are already part of it now..

COMMUNICATION + UNDERSTANDING

=

OVERCOMING OBSTACLES
IN RELATIONSHIPS





not to forget, a little pinch of sacrifices is the unequivocal thing to do..


(oh, did someone mention making love is also part of the recipe?)




2 comments:

ARON WONG DOT COM said...

hey kawaii cherie!! well communication n understanding is da best part to get along! men have to understand women needs sometimes! women need love n care! because they are sensitive! n women needs to understand men too, coz men have responsibility to take care of.n money do act in an important part!! without it, is hard to survive! so lets make it this way! both men n women should try to understand each other! say out your feelings!! i always like to share! sharing also makes u understand more!! well may god always be with u!
cheers ler:)

c H ε R i ə B з R я Y said...

hey aron, thanks so much for ur advice.. sometimes we just have to give and take.. and definitely in a relationship.. sacrifices like these have to be made.. it's good to get more comments for a guy's point of view.. in a way, i get to understand him more.. thanks again.. =)